My Dog Simba

Growing up, I didn’t have a pet.  The only pet I had was a stuffed one named Mutzy and I loved him!

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I didn’t have a pet because my mom was concerned about having an animal in her house.  (I was so deprived – Just kidding Mommy!)  I definitely inherited some fussiness from my mother.  I like things clean and organized that’s for sure. I didn’t ever think I could have a pet for the same reasons my mom didn’t let me have one!   However, 4 years ago I met a dog named Chandler.  He was an 8 year old shih-tzu who was the cutest and nicest dog ever!  Within 3 months of meeting Chandler, we made the quick decision to get our own shih-tzu puppy!

So, meet my dog Simba!

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(This was taken the first day we got him 4 years ago! I immediately fell in love.)

We named him “Simba” because Shih-tzu means “Lion Dog” in Chinese and also because back in the day, shih-tzus were dogs bred for royalty; they warmed the feet of the Chinese Emperors.

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Simba was so small when we first got him that he fit into a Build – A – Bear sweatshirt.  (I was THAT person who dressed my dog!) Ha Ha!

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Here is a funny story about me and Simba!  James and I didn’t sleep much when we first got Simba.  I didn’t realize it was kind of like having a baby in some ways!  So, I would like to preface this story with: I was very over-tired.  Anyway, Simba was a very rambunctious puppy, which surprised us since shih-tzus are usually low maintenance.  (He was a 90 lb black lab in an 8 lb white shih tzu’s body!)  He was always growling and biting.  James, having had multiple pets growing up, said that this was normal for a puppy. However, my friend told me that a shih-tzu actually bit her when she was younger and she had to have her lip repaired. I freaked out and started searching the internet to see if we just got a breed that was known for biting people.  Later that night, my husband was looking at the computer and for some reason clicked on my internet history. He looked at me and said, “Ummm did you google “Killer Attack shih-tzu” earlier today?”  I slowly responded, “Yes. Yes I did…”

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I am a little eccentric and dramatic, I know!  It turned out that the dog wasn’t even a shih-tzu that bit her!

There were a lot of things I didn’t know about having a dog.  Maybe you dog-lovers will appreciate them!

1.  I didn’t know I would talk to my dog like he was a person.  The funny thing is I actually think he understands everything I am saying.  He tilts his head like he’s listening and going to respond.

2.  I didn’t know I would like the smell of my dog even when he doesn’t smell that good.

3.  I didn’t know dogs can get mad  at you and ignore you.

4.  I didn’t know how much I stuck to a certain a routine every day until I had a dog.  He knows my routine better than I do.

5.  I didn’t know how manipulative dogs can be to get what they want.

6.  I didn’t know I would scold my dog like he was my firstborn.

7.  I didn’t know dogs can tell when you are sad and cheer you up!

8.  I didn’t know I would have multiple nicknames for my dog.  Simba’s include Smushy, Bugs A Million, Murph, Moby and Catherine Zeta (Don’t ask about any of these!)   I think he has an identity crisis because we call him so many different names!

9.  I didn’t know how easy it was to teach dogs tricks.  Simba learned a whole bunch of tricks in just one day and still remembers them now!

10.  I didn’t know how attached I would get to a dog!  He was there during all my wedding planning breakdowns.  (Now if that isn’t man’s best friend, I don’t know who is! :)

Simba is almost 4 years old now and I could not imagine my life without him!

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See you on Tuesdays!

Something Old, Something New…Wedding Gift Inspiration

Hey All!  September is a big wedding month for Nantucket!  Just like “Little Miss Caroline,” I love weddings! I also love giving gifts.  If you read my blog post, The Godfather, you know I always try to give a creative gift for specific events.

This gift idea inspiration is for your best friend that is maybe getting married this month or in the future.

The tradition of something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue is still alive and kickin’!  I think it’s one of the neatest traditions at weddings.

So, here is what you need to do!

1.  Contact the bride’s mother, mother-in-law, grandmother, sisters, etc.. and have each one give a specific item that correlates with one of the parts of the tradition.  (For example, Grandmother gives something old, mother gives something borrowed…)

2.  Once you get all the items, write a poem that coordinates with them.  I love writing poems, so if you get stuck I can try and help!  Just send me a message!  :)

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3. Then wrap up the gifts!  You can add these Karen Adams Wedding Gift Enclosures from millyandgrace.com to each gift!

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4.  Either the night before or the morning of the wedding, gather all the people who contributed and give her the gifts.  (This would make a great shower gift as well.)  I guarantee she will love it!  It creates a great family tradition that the bride can then pass on to future generations.

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5.  I attached some of the items to her bouquet so she would have them as she walked down the aisle.

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To view my friends’ wedding, head on over to Style Me Pretty and see the beautiful images by Anda Marie Photography.  Haley and Danny’s vintage- inspired Wisconsin Wedding is right up the Milly & Grace alley!

See you on Tuesdays!

Bow Ties

I have something to say, “I Love Bow Ties!”  and I love matching them to an event!

Women luck out with accessories.  They have handbags, earrings, necklaces, and shoes that they can use to subtly and creatively coordinate their outfit to match with a specific event!

Well, I get bowties!  and that’s why I love them!  Let me show you!

Nantucket Picnic on the Beach – Nantucket Red and Navy Stripes (Murrays Toggery Shop)

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Wedding Day – Classic Black Silk (J.Crew)

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Nantucket Daffodil Festival – Yellow & Green Daffodil Print (Nantucket Sewing Center)

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Nantucket Wine Festival – Purple Stripes and Polk-a-dots (Murrays Toggery Shop)

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Nantucket 4th of July – Red and White Seersucker (highcottonties.com)

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Costume Party – (Sherlock Holmes) Herringbone Diamond Tip (H&M)

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Milly & Grace Event – Pink & Grey (Aldo)

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See, I told you I loved Bow Ties!

I was actually inspired to write this blog post because of a little TV show called Project Runway! “Thank you Mood!”

The episode challenged the contestants to design looks with bow ties in mind!  These were my favorite designs!

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The guest judge for the episode was Jesse Tyler Ferguson from Modern Family.  He and his fiance started an organization called “Tie the Knot,” which designs and sells bow ties.  All proceeds from the sales then go to organizations that fight for marriage equality, a cause very dear to my heart! ;)  It’s also National Bow Tie Day tomorrow!  No lies!

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We are now entering the fall fashion season…  This is one of my favorite seasons because it is the beginning of all the holidays.  Every month is something.  Labor Day, Halloween, Thanksgiving and Christmas and there are a lot of parties and events in between for each of those holidays.  That’s a lot of bow ties to get!  So, what should you girls and boys wear for the next four months of holidays?  Well, let “Tuesdays With Tim” help!

It is Ruana week for www.millyandgrace.com because our online boutique is featuring brand new colors and styles. Ruanas are the perfect choice for your holiday outfits because they are so versatile and come in an array of colors!

Well, I think it is always so attractive when couples subtly coordinate their outfits, so I paired a bow tie for the guys with each ruana for you ladies!

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So, Shop Ruanas for the girls @millyandgrace.com and Shop Bow Ties for the boys @tietheknot.org and you will be the cutest couple at every holiday party for the rest of 2013!  However, you don’t need a man with a bow tie to rock a RUANA! ;)

See you on Tuesdays!